I have been noticing how Bechu has been lying… I sometimes hear him tell stories to JC and Francis, and I hear the 2 boys say that he’s lying. Even with me, I catch him lying like the time when someone called me at home, and he said I wasn’t around.
Thank goodness for the website, I saw some tips that can help me. apparently all the things I’ve been doing are a no-no… being accusatory, saying liar and bad person. I need to understand where he is coming from, why he is lying. It says there that somehow, it covers feeling of low self-esteem, or not wanting to disappoint parents. I need to be more attuned to him… I will never use liar or bad person again. What I can do is try to verbalize why he told stories and go from there. I’m sorry.
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